E2: Are you Escalating the Conflict by Accident?

Dr. Emily Taylor coaches a homeowner in conflict with his neighbor over parking. The story you’re telling yourself about a conflict may have important gaps that are preventing you from finding resolution. In this episode, Dr. Emily coaches Logan to consider the narrative he’s created of a disagreement with his neighbor over parking that has escalated to threats of calling the police. In this episode, you will learn how to: - Consider the conflict from the other person’s perspective. - Re-examine the mode of communication you’re using in a conflict. - Know when to settle for partial resolution of a conflict. Let us know how these strategies work in your own life! Email Dr. Emily at conflictcoach@byu.edu or connect with her on social media @conflictcoachwithdremily 00:00 Introduction to The Conflict Coach 00:49 Meet Logan and His Parking Conflict 01:12 Logan's Perspective and Initial Actions 05:04 Understanding the Neighbor's Concerns 09:15 Exploring Possible Solutions 13:50 Reflecting on Communication and Relationships 21:41 Key Takeaways and Conflict Resolution Tips 28:43 Conclusion and Next Episode Preview